Autism

Autism Bink Family Parenting Poem Poetry Writing

Dear Future Roadmaker

It's still April, still Autism Awareness month. I'm thinking, as I so often do, of all the people I have met on my journey of raising a daughter with special needs. There have been some…

MelindaApril 15, 2019

Autism Bink Writing

I'm truly grateful to be here to greet another April. It's such a hopeful month, with spring springing up everywhere. This month is also known as Autism Awareness Month. To those who love someone who…

MelindaApril 3, 2019

Autism Bink Family Love Parenting Poem Poetry Writing

To Sleep, Perchance to Wake and See the Stars

Bink does not sleep solidly through the night, ever. When she was younger it was especially challenging, because she'd wake up and need me to be right there with her, and she'd often be up…

MelindaFebruary 18, 2019

Autism Bink Family Nature Parenting Poem Poetry Spirituality Writing

Arrivals

I'm posting this a day before my daughter's 26th birthday. I've always felt, with certainty, that we were meant to incarnate this way, as mother and daughter, at this particular time in the life of…

MelindaNovember 14, 2018

Autism Bink Family Meditation Parenting Spirituality Writing

The Meaning of Compassion

The Kuan Yin She keeps watch in the warm corner of my bedroom, her bearing almost more regal for the rivers of cracks and generous chips that mark her faded turquoise. Her right hand, the…

MelindaNovember 5, 2018

Autism Bink Family Parenting

Little Things

It was, in my home, an ordinary weekend morning. I rose before him, he before her, the felines were fed. I made three different kinds of tea, two prepared with stevia and soymilk, one with…

MelindaOctober 15, 2018

Autism Bink Family Parenting Singing Spirituality

The Sings

Someone posed the question: What is it that brings you untethered delight, especially when nobody is watching? I've a bouquet of such things in my heart, but the biggest flower right now would have to…

MelindaOctober 4, 2018

Autism Family Parenting Poem Poetry Women's Issues Writing

Mothering Outside the Lines

The Bus Stop Moms From my morning window I would watch as they huddled casually, tossed light conversation back and forth, an occasional eye towards their kids who played and laughed together, finding sticks, tracing…

MelindaAugust 1, 2018

Autism Bink Family Parenting Poem Poetry Writing

Today’s Truth

We all have challenges, right? Bink has rocky periods, when her anxiety rises and OCD rears its particularly ugly head. There is no easy or quick fix for these times, though we try many things.…

MelindaMay 10, 2018

Autism Bink Family Parenting Writing

Questions, Questions, Everywhere

When Bink was young, I didn’t know if she’d ever be able to ask questions. She had words at age three and four, five and six, but not in a conversational way. She didn’t…

MelindaMay 2, 2018

Dear Future Roadmaker

April is…